Couples therapy: Can I badmouth my girlfriend’s ex? – Company

Couples therapy: Can I badmouth my girlfriend’s ex?  – Company


Your best friend is still lovesick while you think she’s better off without him. Our couple therapists know whether you should say that.

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Nadja and Clemens von Saldern

Actually, I forbid myself to make judgments about my friends’ partners, I don’t think it’s my place. Now, however, one of my friends is suffering greatly because her longtime affair, a married man, finally decided against her and for his wife. I’ve never liked him, always thought he was a selfish jerk. What do you think, should I tell her that? Or am I rubbing salt into the wound?



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